Name: Mercylynn Muthoni Mbuguah
From: Fort Wayne, IN
Votes: 0
To drive or not to drive
I picture her giggling as she
said, daddy, daddy could you please bring me some candy when you come
home? Of course honey, anything for daddy’s little girl. It would
be a longer wait than she expected. Excited that he was finally back,
she hurried toward the door with her mom, only to be disappointed in
seeing an unfamiliar face with a uniform. He spoke and her mother
fell to the ground. Don’t cry mommy, when daddy comes home, he will
give you candy. I never asked her the details of that day because her
silence spoke volumes, so I imagined this scene of a life that once
was. My friend’s father was tragically killed by a drunk driver.
Her world shattered by the action of one driver, her childhood
destroyed as she searched to fill the emptiness of her broken heart.
There was no pause…rewind..and begin the day again. This is the
story of many who cannot erase the pain caused by distracted driving,
but we have a choice today, to bring a new reality and ending to our
stories. To make personal, the reality of the destruction driving
while intoxicated or distracted, allows someone to experience a
reality that can occur without care and precaution. Distracted
driving, not only places you in danger but a mother on her way to
work, a father taking his son to school, a grandparent visiting her
new grandchild. It is easy to sometimes forget that real lives can be
changed by our choices.
Drivers ed can help
students become more comfortable on the road, as they learn good
defensive driving skills from a trained professional. Unfortunately,
sometimes we learn our bad habits of driving from our loved ones who
teach us. My father is notorious for speeding and if it were not for
the personal story of my friend, I could see myself following more
often his example. I remind him and myself constantly about the
dangers of distracted driving and the need for our good examples of
driving. Sharing real-life stories is the most powerful tool in
encouraging people to drive safely, whether through advertisements,
commercials or personal conversations. People know the truth of the
dangers of distracted driving, but so often, we prioritize other
things and think to ourselves that we can successfully multitask.
Reminders whether through alerts or a checklist in the car, to
silence the phone, wire the GPS, or turn the radio to the desired
setting, or lower speed as you drive can be very helpful. With
advancements in technology, you can set up your phone to silence when
it detects driving motion. Creating a culture of safe driving is key
and it starts with each of us, when we challenge ourselves, our
friends and family to grow in a greater awareness of driving habits
as we uphold the dignity of each person.
