The Tradgey of the Road

As a teenager, the freedom of driving is the most exciting thing in the world. But are we (I’ll include myself) really educated on what our actions or lack of actions can cause to ourselves and others? Although age requirements can vary from state to state, most state learner’s permits range from 14 – 16 years of age while full license ranges from 16 – 18 years of age. Are these the ages of mature-responsible drivers? Honestly, it’s not a one fits all answer. Most 14 – 18 year olds lack maturity, are more likely to take risks and become distracted or make mistakes while driving behind the wheel. This too can apply to older adults who simply think they “got this” because they are experienced drivers. Our government must enforce stricter laws requiring some cognitive – behavioral assessment aside from its written and driving test. We have way too many accidents and fatalities in our states, cities and communities. More education needs to be made through public announcements, school and community presentations. The repercussions of reckless driving, driving while under the influence or merely just being distracted needs to be stressed. People need to see it first hand through in-depth testimonials, jury and mock trials in schools, public awareness and demonstrations, and/or public announcements through local ,state and national broadcasts.

As an individual in a vehicle, we need to take ownership of what we allow as a driver or passenger. As drivers, we need to be conscious that our actions can take the lives of those in the vehicle or the lives of others. Simply turning off the phone while driving or being disciplined not to text or answer phone calls. Foreseeing time management when driving to avoid road rage and speeding or reckless driving. Being honest to yourself and others, that you might not be in a position to drive after consumption of a few too many. Being aware of your surroundings to avoid hitting or being hit by another driver. Understanding and plainly being able to make good decisions and judgment calls while you are driving.

As passengers, we too can take ownership. Let the driver know that you would prefer and appreciate them focusing on the road and not on their phone. You too be aware of your surroundings and foresee what could or could not happen if the driver is distracted, under the influence, or poorly driving. Taking an active role as that “backseat driver” to let the driver know that you either approve or disapprove of their driving. Simply recognizing dangerous driving situations and avoiding them to potentially save a life.

We’ve all seen some irresponsible driving at some point in our lives. Unfortunately, my high school and family was impacted by this on September 11, 2021. My cousin had been at a party along with other high school students. He needed a ride home to meet his curfew set by his parents. Unaware of what would happen, he decided to get a ride from a high school friend. While driving, the driver lost control of the vehicle due to speeding. His friend’s truck collided with another car causing them to roll over. Six teenagers’ lives were forever changed that evening. Sadly, his friend and driver of the Dodge Ram was pronounced dead at the scene, another passenger was airlifted to a neighboring city due to the extent of his injuries while four passengers including my cousin were treated locally for non-life threatening injuries. Although the physical scars and injuries may have healed, the tragedy of that night will forever haunt those four teenagers who lost a friend. That May, as my cousin along with other high school seniors received their diplomas for their successful accomplishments and completion of high school, a Mother mourned. My cousin, classmates and his friends mourned too for the loss of their loved one. And those “what if” questions will always play in their minds.

Let’s actively take those “what if” questions into consideration the next time you are driving or in a vehicle. We all need to take ownership and responsibility in our active roles while in a vehicle.

I know that this tragedy as many others have changed the lives of those affected. “What if” everyone started to think about the repercussions of their actions when driving. Those “what if” scenarios and questions just might save lives! Through the use of programs to educate young teen drivers, we may be able to decrease or even eliminate road crashes. Being a safe, responsible driver should be the goal for all teenagers learning to take on the responsibilities of the road.